Oscar Wilde

"Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught".

 

ACCEPTED!John Jay College Of Criminal Justice, Here I come!

I received my official letter of acceptance today and I'm so excited, though theres still a long way to go. But it shows that hard work pays of! I am going to attain a bachelors degree in forensic science and technology, and yes I am obsessed with criminal shows like CSI,NCIS,LAW & ORDER etc, though I didn't realise till of lately. I know its a field I would enjoy and forever be fascinated in. As Janice Rockett said, and I quote"Find your passion and make it your profession..and you'll never work again". So very true.

I am anticipating experiencing different cultures and meeting people of varios ethnic groups. I aim to attain a well-rounded education and not just academic related. I also look forward to livin gon my own for the first time, even though it would be temporary. It'll b another life challenge and learning experience.

I hope all humps i encounter, I will be given the strength and guidance to deal with them as sophisticated as can be.

Wish me all the best!

xoxo,

LadyWilliams

Nicki Minaj:Pink Friday

PINK FRIDAY - IN STORES NOW!

After watching Nicki Minaj:My Time Now, it really changed my perception of her as a person and an artist. From her many struggles and failures, but she never gave up, to how much she loves her family.But I must say this album truly defines what shes capable of compared to songs she did before, some of which I thought were catchy but cheessy. How can I forget her incredible taste in fashion. True Showstopper!

Shes a phenomenom, great entertainer and has transended that to many of her fans with the "barbie" persona. Hope she continues to be successful and do it BIG, after all she hails from the Caribbean!!!

Two of my favourite songs are "Roman's Revenge" and "Moment 4 life".

x0x0,

LadyWilliams

Special Shoutout to all ma Caribbean peeps. :)

CHECK IT OU!! ---> Nicki Minaj frt Drake - Moment 4 life http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAnr9afMn5Q

Marchesa: By Georgina and Keren

~*MARCHESA*~

These are some of my favourite Marchesa gowns, CHECK OUT Marchesa and Marchesa Bridal on FACEBOOK!! MY FAVOURITE OF ALL - WOULD LOVE THIS TO BE MY WEDDING GOWN :)

I recently discovered the brand MARCHESA and absolutely fell in love with it. Their gowns are gorgeous, Marchesa is inspired by vintage and Asian influences. Many top-notch celebrities have worn Marchesa and the brand is continuing to be a success.


XOXO,

LadyWilliams.

"I Believe.." What I Live By

I Believe in equality of all people, regardless ethnicity, socail class, age, political views, religion etc

I Believe in freedom of speech and ones opinions.

I Believe in forgiveness to attain peace for oneself.

I Believe in second chances. No one's perfect.

I Believe in LOVE. To love others you must love oneself.

I Believe that no man should judge judge another. GOD is the ultimate judge.

I Believe that everyone, human or fetus has a right to life. Who are we to play GOD.

I Believe in a higher purpose.

I Believe in doing onto others as you would like them do unto you, despite past differences. Hold no grudges!

I Believe in order to gain respect you must show it and earn it.

I Believe in "gut feeling" "instinct" and "intuition".

xoxo,

LadyWilliams

Eva & Eva : On the red carpet

Eva Longoria looked dazzling in a navy Emanuel Ungaro dress with beaded turquoise straps at the Golden Globes 2007

Eva Longoria in strapless red Reem Acra dress at the 2009 Golden Globes

Eva Longoria sashayed along the red carpet in a dramatic plum-coloured confection by Marchesa

From sweet and simple DIOR to floral Oscar De La Renta, with Brian Atwood's blush suede "Contessa" pumps ! She always looks absolutely stunning!

Thought the two EVAs are equally beautifull, I must say Eva Longoria shows more sex appeal (more cleavage and tight fitted gowns) whereas Eva Mendes is more on the conservative side. Nevertheless, they both always look gor-jus in basically everything they wear on the red carpet.

Graduation & Ball '10 : The Experience

2010 T.A Marryshow Community College, St.George's Grenada, W.I

After 2 dreadful and challenging years, "they day" finallly reached. I've been anticipating graduating since the day i started. Though it was a glorious day, it was partially sad, being that so many people I had grown fond of I may never see again. Nevertheless, though we all go our seperate ways the memories will forever remain.

On a fashion note, :) I had to go out in style *wink*. Though the dress kept riding up on me i totally rocked it!!! and i surely partied hard at ball ! lolz

xoxo,

LadyWilliams

By me : Ronna Williams

No matter how book smart you are or how wealthy your family is, without common sense and other VALUABLE traits, there's some aspects of SUCCESS you just would not attain.

Best Wishes For Summer '10!

I know, It's been a while since I've blogged..over a month actually but I've been super busy from Ball & Graduation to reality. Been trying to enjoy my Summer but so many things and PEOPLE have so frequently tried to taint that. Despite and the set backs I'm making the best of it and it taking One step at a time.

On that note I hope everyones having a great summer, after all it's the time for ultimate fun and relaxation. BE SAFE!

B*L*E*S*S*E*D L*O*V*E

let your SUMMER 2K10 ROCK!

Shopping For Ball, An Excuse to Spend Money!

KleanColor: Hawaiian Rainbow Splendor $15 EC

Ladies Accessories: necklace and earring set $15 Ec

Butterfly ring : $15 Ec

Black Opal Perfecting powder makeup : $51 EC

Human Hair, 1B, 16" : $125 EC

The prices were reasonable and the items didn't look too cheap and tacky. Thanks to Ma girl Raquel for helping me, walking in da hot sun loolz, but we were successful!

Grad&Ball on Thrusday,tomorrow, not anticpating sitting for 3 hrs and an extra 2 hrs to get ready and line up n shit! But the ball shall be a night toremember! I'll keep you posted for pics!

xoxo,

LadyWilliams.

I Say: To hell with gold and diamonds, I love my costume jewelry :)

I also have this thing for perfume :)

My Collection

Victorias Secret set. Not really that into make up!

Bangles

Necklaces

Earrings

More earrings :)

....and more..


Necklaces

Earrings & necklaces


I tend to get alot of jewelry as presents, so they have accumulated over the years. I think costume jewelry gives more personality and versatilityto your outfit instead of the normal gold or silver..unless you;re really blinging. It's a really good way to accessorise and stand out. They're also affordable and can be hand made.

Ask an Expert: Why Famous Men Cheat and What Our Ancestors Really Thought of Sex and Monogamy

I don’t know about you, but whenever I hear someone (usually a guy) say that humans aren’t wired to be monogamous, I get a bit suspicious. I mean, where’s the research?!
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality is a recently released book that explores these deep questions. I had the opportunity to read Sex at Dawn and it was such an insightful look into the ways our ancestors viewed sexuality.

Earlier this week, I spoke with the book’s author, Christopher Ryan, PhD about the real nitty-gritty of mankind's sexual past. Christopher is a research psychologist who has taught at the University of Barcelona Medical School and in several European hospitals.

Rosemary: How are our contemporary views of sexuality different from those of our ancestors? Were our ancestors more open about sexuality?

Christopher: Yes, the evidence strongly suggests that until about 10,000 years ago, with the advent of agriculture, people lived a much freer life, sexually speaking. Although most mainstream scientists have argued that a sense of shame is universally associated with sex, in Sex at Dawn, we discuss many societies where this is clearly not the case. We argue that most of the sexual repression that characterizes contemporary societies only entered into human life when people started worrying about property. Among nomadic foragers who have little or no personal property, paternity tends to be a non-issue. But once we had houses, land, animals, and other forms of wealth to "keep in the family," paternity suddenly became a critical concern. Of course, the only way to assure paternity was to control women's sexual behavior. Shame is one of the most powerful ways of manipulating people, which is why there are so many more words for women who disobey sexual rules than men (whore, slut, harlot, bitch, hussy, and so on).

Rosemary: Why is monogamy difficult for some couples? How is our view of monogamy different from our ancestors?

Christopher: Monogamy is difficult in the same way that working the night shift is difficult. Because we're just not made for working nights, the disruption of our evolved energy cycles causes a range of health problems—both psychological and physiological. As thinking beings with free will, we can certainly choose to be monogamous over a lifetime, but we should understand that this can be a costly decision, like working the night shift, refusing to exercise, or living on pizza and beer.
In Sex at Dawn, we are careful to distinguish sexual monogamy from emotional monogamy. It's quite possible that many of our ancestors maintained very special, uniquely intimate relationships over their entire adult lives, but unlikely that many of them considered sexual exclusivity to be a necessary part of that intimacy. So, perhaps our ancient ancestors felt just as much "love" as any of us do, but they very probably considered sex to be a separate matter.

Rosemary: What makes people, especially high profile celebrities (Jesse James, Tiger Woods) cheat? Do they believe they won’t get caught?

Christopher: There's undoubtedly some sense of false invulnerability in someone who grows accustomed to being surrounded by yes-men and women. But these situations are also largely a function of opportunity. It's difficult for most men to imagine what it's like to have an endless supply of attractive women offering themselves, no strings attached (theoretically). An attractive woman will have little trouble finding a willing sex partner within minutes of walking into the right sort of bar, but very few men ever experience that situation, and most who do encounter it only as adults, when they've achieved some great success or fame (or in strip clubs, which are an artificial replica of such a situation). So they don't really know how to deal with the overabundance of erotic opportunity. Many of these men may have an accumulated sense of sexual frustration from those lean times in their teens and 20s when they were dorky unknowns practicing their guitar or golf swing.
Think about it: even if Tiger Woods had sex with a thousand different women, he still probably refused the explicit advances of ten times that many very hot ladies. How many men ever get the chance to say no to ten thousand women?

Rosemary: In long-term relationships, why does the sexual passion fade even though the couple’s love grows?

Christopher: It fades because its work is done. Sexual passion is a force for drawing two people together. Once they are together, it's utterly natural for that passion to fade. If the couple are compatible on other levels, it will be replaced by something deeper and much more enduring than sexual passion, something we might call "soul passion." Trying to build a family on sexual passion is like building a house on December ice, but founding a marriage on soul passion is building on solid ground.
Couples who feel a sense of failure in the passing of sexual passion are the victims of a childish and false vision of "love" promoted by the fairy tales of Hollywood and romance novels.


My Take:

I found this piece truly intriguing, especially the part about "sexual passion" and "Soul Passion" which the doctor clearly distinguised. It's interesting when we fall in love with someone and theres everyting we look for..the spark,flames and all that , but when the relationship progresses, we find that that sexual appeal isn't as intense as before and the conclusion is made that the person has changed or fallen out of love. When really that's the time when the two people in the relationship has to put in more and dont become oblivious or complacent.

So what about you ladies? Why do you think men more often are incapable of being monogomous? Are you intouch with your sexuality?


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Official Video: Tami Chynn & Tifa - Certified Diva

So loving this video by Tami! Doing her sexy thang as usual. DIVA style!

Abraham Lincoln

"Better to remain SILENT and to be thought of a fool, than to SPEAK and remove all doubt".

~*~*~*~*~*~S.I.L.E.N.C.E IS G.O.L.D.E.N~*~*~*~*~*~

T.A.M.C.C SoundOff!

The past couple of days have been so hectic and chaotic!
From being in long ass lines, running up and down and trying to make sense of nonsense.
I don't mean to come down on the islands' only college but my goodness the system should be much better and at least 85% functional.
It's absolutely ridiculous that us as graduates have to see so much trouble to actually graduate.
Most of the employers are not just lazy but incompetent, like seriously.
You would think after all these years they learn and organise things to be more feasible.
The students see so much trouble and have to suffer consequences beyond their control.
I know life's not fair but at least the school system should be, since we all have to same goal.
But i suppose if we lived through all that then we can conquer anything.

Albert Einstein

"Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything he learned in school".

Basic Principles Of Life

What was before, will never be again.
People change--life on a whole changes.
We experience things no other can feel,
But that does not give us the right to be
prejudice,selfish, obnoxious or insolent.

We cannot put blame on the ones who cares
About us for our mistakes.But we must not
Dwell on the past or past judgement on things
That cannot be altered.
We must forgive and love whole-heartedly.
You can't fear to love nor love half way
When you're being loved unconditionally.
Love is not a feeling or a choice-
It's a way of life that brings peace and Happiness.
Despite the power of love, pain is inevitable.

There will be storms along the way
When you just can't see the end
But you know its there.
You can never stop caring and giving up
Is certainly not an option.
Don't wait for tragedy to strike and be one
Of those person to say
"If I had" or "I should have"
Treasure the ones you love
For not everyone can experience it.
Always let them know how you feel
Don't take the simplest thing as not calling
Or saying a few words of appreciation for Granted.
Those things can reach a mildstone.
Always give more than you can give in any endeavour.
Know that you did all that you could have done.

Most certainly can't forget the "haterz".
There will always be people wanting to see you crumble
Even though you worked hard.
They don't want to be successful
Just satisfy their failure to achieve!!
All you can do is live your life, making every moment one to live for!


"Why do we make those we care about cry and cry for the ones who don't care about us".Think about it!

Socrates

"He is the richeest who is content with the least, for content is the wealth of nature".

*~*~*~*~*B.L.E.S.S.E.D L.O.V.E*~*~*~*~*

Premiere of Trey Songz - My Moment Part 2

Trey Songz have truly shown in this premiere episode how much he is devoted to being a success. After his first two unsuccessful albums he didn't give up but made a stance with his recent album "READY" which went platinum. He is an inspiration to all young and upcoming artists, he strives to be better and never get complacesent because he knows how fast it can be tken away and given to someone who truly wants it!

He said "The measure of a man is the lives he's touched, the lives he's affected.."

Though we all female love him for his hot body and sexy voice,there's more to trey.His objective isn't only to sell albums,make money and ever so often rip his short off but to have an impact on lives.

Premiere of Trey Songz - My Moment Part 1

ABC's New Summer Season: The Gates

ABC's New Summer Season:Scoundrels

New Video:Fantasia - Bittersweet

I Can't Understand Why..............

"I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY................."

I can't understand why people allow others to make them feel inferior. We may have all come on different ships, but we're in the same boat now.-Martin Luther King Jr.

I can't understand why we so desire material things even though they still don't bring us Love,Peace & Happines.

I can't understand why people with no education,job or sense of purpose finds a full time job in being an expert on others lives(in layman terms"minding their business") who have everything going for them.

I can't undersand why the majority black race insist on making a mockery of themselves and settle for mediocrity.

I can't understand why women suffereing from poverty are adamant on procreating at record pace.

I can't understand why us humans remain in oblivion towards protecting our environment, the core of our survival.

I can't understand why we refuse to find solutions to many social problems that are inevitable instead of promote abstinence.

I can't understand why we consciously make decisions then when it goes south we say "i regret..".

I can't understand why marijuana is illegal and cigerettes aren't.

I can't understand why people conform to others authority,disregarding their beliefs,ethics & instincts just to gain popularity or promotion.

I can't understand why as a nation/ community we try to effortlessly to bring each other down when we're fighting for the same purpose.

I can't understand why people are racial against others of the same ethnic group.

And I can go on and on...there's so many things we may never understand, others we just have to accept.

Shoe Sightings: The Sexy,Freaky & Interesting

Eva Pigford (take a very good look at her shoes) - a mix between sexy and interesting.

Shakira - a splash of sexy bu tmore interesting.

Serena Williams - Somewhere between freaky and interesting!

Jessica Biel - Interestingg! Glitter

Heidi Klum - Mucho sexxyy

Emma Watson - Very sexy

None other than Lady Gaga - Freaky definitely

Scarlett Johansson - sexy

BET Awards: Best & Worst Dressed

~*~BEST DRESSED~*~

BET's Caption: Performing with a baby bump, Alicia still looked hot in a purple satin mini and hot pink pumps.

Highlight of the BET Awards

Alicia Keys : looked absolutely stunning in this fuschia mini, her baby bump just amplifies her beauty!

Nia Long - Simple but hot! Perfec t for the occasion. Don't wanna over do it and look a hot mess.

BET's Caption: A fan favorite, Ashanti was red hot in an elegant ruffled gown.
PERSONAL FAVOURITE!!

Ashanti - Looked sexy yet classy in this bright red number! LOVEEE ITT!

~*~WORST/(NOT ALL THAT) DRESSED~*~

The “Fame” star poses on the carpet in a Marco Marco dress and shoes by Chinese Laundry

Naturi Naughton (ex 3LW member) - Dayumm girll! can you walk in that?? It ain't worth it!







BET's Caption: Rocking a killer look for the red carpet, Fergie complements her fashion-forward black and white dress with peep-toe pumps and dark shades.

Fergie - That thing hanging from the back maks her look like an animal with a tail. Not flattering!

BET's Caption: Carmelo, donning a trendy cardigan and multi-colored tie, escorted wife-to-be LaLa, who wore a sexy sequin dress

Lala Vasquez and fiance carmelo anthony - Is it jus tme or does something looks really off from her ass come down...and even her breasts...so not proportional! But the dress looks hot though.

BET's Caption: Playing up her solid-gold status, the sexy singer sets off a style bombshell in a black dress punctuated with lacing detail and fringe.



Ciara - Not alll that, but its better than Jada's outfit lool






BET's Caption: She's one hot mama! Jada shows off her curves in Chanel hot shorts and a black blazer. Jaden and Willow are the perfect fashionable accessories.
Jada Pinkett-Smith and her sons - honestly, i dont know what to say. maybe they were going for some weird goth matrix look or sum'. Her son at the end (Jaden) is the only one that can pass under "normal", I don;t know whats going on wit Willow





Bet's Caption: Cassie kept cool in a tan bandeau top and cropped pleated slacks

Casandra Ventura - not feeling it at all! bottom too baggy. but then again she loools hot no matter what she wears!

MTV: ‘Drake: Better Than Good Enough’ Documentary

MTV: ‘Drake: Better Than Good Enough’ Documentary

This documentary is self explanatory!

I must say theres something really spectacular about this young man. His passion, motivation and will to be BETTER THAN GOOD ENOUGH is truly inspirational.
Though hes just gotten started, his album "Thank Me Later" in its first week debuted at # 1 and sold 446,680 copies. This just shows you how his music touches so many people and he's got a long successful road ahead of him.
One thing that i really admired from watching this documentary is how humble he is and refuses to let the fame and money consume him because for him, hes doing what he loves, what he knows.
This documentary really got me and alot of his fans to get a clear insight of "Aubrey Drake Graham".
Theres two things that really touched me: first his love and devotion to producer and close friend "Noah 40 Shebib". He said that he doesnt know if he could continue making music without him. Secondly his answer when the interviewer asked him, "Who are you and what do you do?" Drake responded "I'm Aubrey Drake Graham and i make a living off truly being my self". Before he answered i knew his answer was going to be something deep and moving and it truly was!

*Summah Lovin' & the Livin' is Easy*

Lookin pweeddy in ma dress :)

At da famous Grand Anse beach!

The time of year that we all anticipate so greatly.
When we get to indulge, RELAX,RELEASE & REJUVENATE!

The to-do list is neverending: hitin the beach,carnival,travelling,naturistic adventures,amusement parks,parting and so much more.

It's a time to recapture the essence of life
We tend to get so caught up during the year we forget what its like to be in stress free mode
It's also a time for reunions and new beginnings.

I personally enjoy showing off ma cute, patterned sun dresses.
It officially marks the beginning of SUMMAH.
The # of clothing decreases to suite the warm weather.

The days seems shorter but are never less fulfilling.

For those that are sports fanatics.
The olympics and various world cups are also held during the SUMMAH
Theres always so much happening, theres never a dull moment.

For those of us in the caribbean in particular Carnival is the spotlight event of the season.
Showcase of our culture in events such as jouvert,pretty mass,panorama,soca monarch..just to name a few.
The streets are filled with thousands of people both local and foreigners.

So people dont miss out on the many joys that SUMMAH brings.
LOVE IT & LIVE IT to the FULLEST!
BE SAFE! and dont over do it!
SUMMAH doesn't last forever!

I'm so anticipating this SUMMAH.
Hoping for a new beginnning.



S U M M A H 2 0 10 **** G R E A T * E X P E C T A T I O N S