Relationships are doomed by:
Irrational expectations
labels
fixing things that's not broken
lies
Insecurities/dwelling on the past
the opinions of friends and others
Too many people are caught up with the social constructed idea
of what a relationship should consist of .
of what a relationship should consist of .
No one should dictate how persons in a relationship should live,
they should do whatever works for them.
We all are familiar with the destructive nature of lies. They lay and nest.
Insecurities stem from dwelling on past situations and mistakes.
And some find it hard to let go off using it as excuses to create actual problems.
People are so worried about what others think that they allow outsiders opinions and rumors to undermine their relationship.
Some persons expect their significant other to go over and beyond the scope of their relationship.
Just let it be and see where it goes.
Whatever happened to keeping it simple, no labels or titles and being friends first. When that foundation is there, the structure is not easily broken.
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